As Kinky as You Wanna Be: Your Guide to Safe, Sane and Smart BDSM

As Kinky as You Want to Be is a basic introduction to the world of kink, with the beginner in mind. The success of certain kink-related books and movies has piqued the interest of average couples. Whether it is to refresh a stale relationship or to simply liven things up in the bedroom, the book is a useful guide to safely take the plunge. The author’s narrative and instruction, guest interviews and accompanying erotic short stories that set the scene give the reader the whole picture in deciding how and what types of kink they might best incorporate in their lives. The glossary at the back is exceptionally helpful in defining important terms for the beginner.

This book is not for those that have been in the lifestyle for any length of time. It truly is a kink-101 type of manual, but the way in which it touches on subjects as health and illness, finding your fantasies, etc., make it a very valuable resource for those that think they just don’t “fit” the lifestyle. You can pursue as much or as little as you like, however safety and consent should the most important factors in making that decision.